VIRGINITY

This post is definitely not for the soft hearted, traditional, inferior and cowards. If you are one of them drop here itself

Lot of times I heard this word “VIRGINITY’ from different people since my schooling. When I started giving serious thought about to define that word in my perception, I’m unable to figure out what might be the logic behind people’s perceptions. I am just putting my doubts regarding the same as it is. Also, as far as my knowledge is concerned the ultimate act of sex is to have an orgasm by spitting something from their sex organs. All my doubts are based on the same definition

• If a person who had sex is not a virgin then how come a person who masturbates is a virgin?? The ultimate thing happening in both the cases is same for any person.

• Someone said the desire level will be different when a person is masturbating and when he/she is involved in sex. Let us suppose a person is having sex with a ugly person (in his perception). Automatically his desire level will be very low when compared to the same person having sex with a sexy person. Does that mean he/she is a virgin if he has sex with the ugly person??

• How come a person who had foreplay with someone is a virgin? Just because they didn’t have intercourse??

• Let us suppose a person is watching a sex scene in a movie which is excellently picturized and the person is excited and all his/her hormones reacted well. Why is this person still a virgin?? He/she is almost having sex with the on scene person (that’s why their hormones react. Right??)

• Suppose two kids had sex (suppose 6 to 7 yrs old kids) even without knowing what is sex and without having orgasm. Are they virgins or not??

• Every person (atleast boys) in their growing age get dreams about sex and spits out their sperm. Is he still a virgin?? Somehow I feel that it happens to girls also. If it is the case, is she a virgin?

• Suppose a person raped a girl. Is she a virgin or not?

• What about a sex worker who does sex for her living? Is she/he a virgin or not??

• Suppose there is a boy & girl who are classmates or colleagues or friends. Both of them may touch each other’s hands or other body parts in their day to day life. If these persons are virgins why not  the persons who had sex are not virgins?? What is the difference between their hands and their sex organs?? Both of them are their body parts only and they are contacting the other person’s body parts. Isn't it??

• In the above point you may say that sex is an emotional act done physically. If that is the case my point in sex scene while watching a movie is valid as it is purely emotional even though there is no physical act. Also the raped girl is a virgin since she is not intended to have sex with him

• If you say a person is not a virgin only if he/she is indulged in a physical act then my points in foreplay and masturbating are valid. Also the girl who was being raped is also not a virgin.

• If you say it is both emotional and physical, the person who raped the girl and the sex worker are also virgins. Because the first person has done it with sadism and the second person for survival. No one is emotionally attached to their act

• By the way of his birth, no boy in this world is a virgin

P.S: I never had sex experience other than foreplay. So if any of my questions are meaningless please enlighten me with your gyan!!